This is becoming apparent to us as well. We want an 8-passenger just for the 3-seat bench in row 2. The third row bench will be removed. Could order a custom 8-passenger for about $40K. We found a 2016 in Utah with our exact desired build and can get it for about $36K, except it's a 10-passenger.
Think it's worth taking it to a van upfitter and having the 3-seat bench installed in Row 2?