I don't think you understand what people are talking about in this thread in reference to HD vs standard front axle. Axle does not = driveshaft/CV. Do you think RWD vans have front wheels that just magically float along with the suspension arm? A wheel requires an axle. That being said, on 2WD vans the "Axle" is the hub itself. I assume Ford calls it an axle just to connect it to the standard term GAWR.
You also seem to have a thing for Quigley...
AWD vans have HD front axles/hubs. New-Gen RWD vans have either standard duty front axles/hubs, or HD front axles and hubs (which have the 6 bolt AWD/dually wheel pattern). I assume the old RWD 350HD vans (2019 and back) dualies had the "HD front axle/hub" then too, which is now offered on any RWD van as an option. Enables higher front GAWR.
It seems uncertain if the AWD front arm ball joints are different/bigger than the RWD ball joints (not something the auto part stores might have proper info in their system yet to know what parts are compatible).
Regardless, the "smear post" you're referring to was a description of some of the pros and cons of different ways to lift the AWD van, and why VC chose not to do a sub-frame drop. The Q-Lift is not without it's own compromises, and the Q-Lift van referenced in that post was already slinging grease from a torn center driveshaft boot (maybe could have been damaged during install, but doubtful) - because the Q Lift increases the angle of that driveshaft instead of the CVs, causing the center driveshaft to be near binding or slightly binding, and the driveshaft boot to rub on itself. Which will probably cause premature wear... Curious the difference in cost between replacing CVs vs the front center driveshaft?
People are so adamant to defend the choice they made for their van as "the best choice." There rarely is a best choice, as you said aftermarket mods usually involve compromises. At least with VC, I'm a few grand ahead money wise, to pay for new CVs or ball joints if/when they wear out eventually (I'm not running bilsteins) - which will be a convenient time to upgrade them. I will still have saved money. It is nice the Q-Lift can use bilsteins, but supposedly VC is working on falcon front struts and/or a 1.5" lift to enable using bilsteins.