Anyone have a lot of experience with my ford?

I like the bluetooth connectivity but I really wish it would start at the same setting I leave it at every time. Instead every time I get in and start my van I have to reconnect to the Bluetooth audio for my music. It also answers some calls through sync and sometimes through my phone so I never know which is going to answer with when I answer a call while driving and I would like to fix that as well. Might just need to use the aux input and turn the Bluetooth off which kinda makes having sync pointless. Any help or advice is appreciated.

Thanks
Chad